Pause, Reflect, Move- New

Chapter 1

Capturing the thoughts of this day can be my anchor in the days to come….

I have been reading this book ‘Big Magic’ Creative living beyond fear, by Elizabeth Gilbert. She says, a true writer keeps writing in a small diary, anywhere and everywhere!

Interestingly, I have this habit, rather the need to jot down points.They could be things to do on a daily basis, areas of improvement for myself or my attitude! They could be things which require correction in my immediate environment! This practice is primarily to boost my ability to multitask, not to miss something important, have my notes ready when called by my boss for a surprise meeting!

I read ‘Wabi Sabi’ by Beth Kempton about a year back, where she talks about embracing imperfection. She talks about fixing the broken vase with golden paint. The vase back in shape looks beautiful in a different way, with a new perspective!

I have been encountering my feelings of ‘I don’t want to, even if it is good for me’ and ‘Please understand, am unable to do this even if this looks simple!’ Over the years I have learnt to respect my opinion and thoughts but this kind of strong reluctance for certain things was at the back of my mind, constantly nagging me….why?

This morning it unfolded….

The broken vase after being fixed looks strong beautiful and definitely stands out. But, it is more fragile, more prone to breakage and demands more care!!!!

Many of us need to realize this need to BE HANDLED WITH CARE.

We need to say ‘No’ to ourselves and not come under pressure to meeting the expectations of anyone especially of our ownselves!

“I accept myself for who I am and create peace, power and confidence of mind and of heart.”